You had a break up?

It is not easy to fall in love, more difficult to maintain and hurtful to come out.. this is what we have always known. I spoke to a very close friend, who has had a terrible break up..sad... and this is how i came up with sharing few tips you can follow post ur heart breaks...


For men, it is not pretty simple if they are dumped. They tend to lose their mind and sometimes add insult to injury. The bottoline is, This is not the end (I am serious)

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  First and the foremost, please do not listen to break up songs ala unbreak my heart or since u r gone...and similar stuff.... instead, update your player with- my happy ending! trust me it is not difficult to be all alive and kicking even when u've been kicked in all wrong places.
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  DO NOT and NEVER block/delete ur ex from your social networking profiles. This will increase ur pain...try visiting their profile more, see what they are doing and repeat 10 times- Oh! C'mon you were never good enough for me OR good riddance. and sneaking and checking what they r doing will make u feel better.
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  Thank God because now u have more free time, more friends to attend to, more hasslefree parties/outings, much MORE money to splurge and time to do things u always wanted to do.

courtsey: cobb's blog.

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  Do not start desperate search for next love. please understand u gotta enjoy this phase before it fades. a desperate search will make u a moronic idol leaching at others. so get a life larger than this.
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  Go to the places, pubs, discs, theatres etc where u used to go with ur ex..a break up doesn't mean u have to get a licence renewal to enter the forbidden zone of heart.
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  Start thinking that it is a transition from break-up to breakfree 
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  Do not talk about your break up with ur friend (s)/best friend etc..please no inspiration from sex and city and similar soaps, movies...it is personal and no hell would break loose if u abandon discussions on it. save urself from further heart burns. I'll give u an example-                                                                                                                                    

you: sob sob narration of ur break up story.                                                                          

friend: gosh, that is bad..i feel awful, terrible...what are u gonna do now. Im with u, don't worry etc etc...                                                                                                                you will start believing that your plight is as mad as hatter (just like the counseling done) urgh

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  Use your gourd rather than ur lovelorn instintual heart to understand that u don't have to come out of anything...it should be a buh-bye from ur side (understanding 'buh' and 'bye' at the same time is important)
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  Google the best break up quotes, read them and feel like the lucky bitch who just escaped from a stray dog.
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  Buy yourself the best things- playstation, change ur wardrobe, books, and any and everything u like.

Roses are red, Violets are blue. Garbage is dumped, so are you.